The Importance of Carving Your Own Path

I had the honor of photographing Lynley Reilly in the fall. I asked her to share a takeaway from her journey:

“Carve your own path and focus your energy on the people and things around you that uplift you; ignore the naysayers. Enjoy the uncomfortable because that’s where you really learn. You can get lost in the hard stuff and the uncomfortable feeling but that is where you learn and grow and develop.”

Lynley’s journey wasn’t traditional by any means. When I went to law school, it was during the recession and just getting into a program was competitive and difficult. For the first time in my life, I wasn’t at the top of my class. I wasn’t sure I’d be successful. I even had a few people tell me that I should go into a different career or that I would never pass the bar or that I should find a different job.”

Lynley continued, “I attribute my success to not listening to naysayers or people that tell you that you must follow a certain path. In 2012, the set path was joining a firm after law school, but I didn’t see myself that way. I networked all through law school to carve my own path. I met as many people as I could to create a village that would support and uplift me on my journey to become an in-house attorney. I also met people that I could encourage too. Meeting people led me to what I love to do: helping people navigate issues they were facing both personal and in business. Over my career, I’ve had the opportunity to work for companies like Anheuser-Busch, Heineken, Peloton and Ferrero.”

“As a working mom, I don’t get a lot of time for myself. It was really nice to do something to focus on myself and my career. Alissa and Lisa are a dynamic duo who made me feel really special. They made me look like the strong, powerful woman that I am.”

About Alissa

Alissa is a professional headshot photographer who creates photos that capture your essence. Alissa is based in New Jersey and provides her headshot services in NJ and NYC. Check out more of Alissa’s portfolio on the homepage, and read more photo stories on the blog.

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